I would tell any student that tenaciousness is a requirement
in order to be successful in life. It is not willpower. Willpower can break. It
is not stubbornness. Stubbornness leads to foolish mistakes. It is not blind faith;
blind faith has no proof that something can be accomplished. It is a quality
that can be learned and developed and honed. It requires that you have grit, the
unwillingness to give up despite everything in you feeling like you should. You
don’t give up because you know the thing you are reaching for is possible despite
what anyone else says or does. You don’t even allow your human weaknesses and frailties
to cause you to quit.
Personally, I am not one to give up on something I have
committed myself to do. However, during one assignment for this class, I had to
dig deep to complete it in time. See, I didn’t check to see how many assignments
we had for the week. On one Friday morning around 10:30, I was checking to make
sure I had submitted my work and I realized I had forgotten two assignments. I
had about an hour and a half to complete them. I finished them on time.
Correctly.
So, three tips I would offer to the next set of students: make
up your mind before you start that you are going to finish whatever you do because
it’s worth it; don’t listen to your feelings when they tell you to quit, listen
to your head; and know that things are going to go wrong and choose to deal
with it on the way to achieving your goals.

Hello Lamar,
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed reading your reflection. I think that tenacity is something everyone needs as well. I also relate to you with falling behind at times and having to get work done as best as I could, however, I do agree that having a positive mindset and learning from your mistakes is a great idea. Your tips were very good as well!